Why when things get hard for people, why do we always run away from the problem. if just once or twice we actually stuck with it an delt with the issue wouldnt things be better. for example when fighing with someone do you actually hear their side of the story and act on it instead of just feeling the pain an anger of what they have done. if you listened to whats eating them and hurting them surely you could think about it and try to change that but

People always pretend to be listening but reali they are just thinking of what they can say to try make it all your fault and make it seem as though you are upset over nothing, mayb, just mayb if they just tried to hear your side and tried to understand it, not fake kinda ,yes, baby i know and im sorry, understand but reali reali understand it, mayb then the fighting would stop...